Books by Boyé Lafayette De Mente*
*A former member of a
U.S. intelligence agency, trade journalist, editor
and consultant with more
than 50 years experience in cross-cultural dealings,
Boyé Lafayette De
Mente is internationally known for his pioneer business, culture,
language, and travel books on
Japan, Korea, China, and Mexico. He has also written
extensively on Arizona his home
state. His primary publishers are
McGraw-Hill and the Periplus-Berkeley-Tuttle group.
Some of his books are
available in Chinese, Croatian, French, German,
Hebrew, Indonesian, Italian,
Japanese, Russian and Spanish.
All of his books are available from Amazon.com.
Scroll to the bottom of this file see a list of his
digital articles and essays also
available
from Amazon.com; along with a list of his web blogs.
LATEST BOOK:
THE ORIGINS OF HUMAN VIOLENCE –
Male Dominance, Ignorance, Religions
& Willful Stupidity!
Quality
Trade Paperback
It goes without saying that male
humans are among nature’s most violent life forms—and all attempts by religions
and laws to curb this violent nature have failed. In what might be called a
second subtitle the author lists “Abuse of Human Sexuality, Tribalism,
Territorialism, Race, Color, Religions and Self-Interest” as the root causes of
human violence.
De Mente places the bulk of
the blame for male violence on religions that call for both males and females
to significantly suppress their genetically programmed sexuality, and for males
to dominate females. These two factors, he adds, cause a buildup of unused
sexual energy, particularly in males, that result in internal and external
violence of one kind or another.
He sums up the results of
this sexual repression by saying that “When males get hard on the bottom they
get soft on top”—meaning they lose the ability to think logically, rationally
and objectively, and become prone to commit violence.
The book also claims that the
failure of religious-based morality combined with industrialization has
resulted in profit-making becoming humanity’s new morality. This new morality,
De Mente adds, is responsible for the present culture that, among other things,
emphasizes violence in the entertainment industries, the display of semi-nude
females in advertising products, and the emergence of pornography as one of the
world’s largest and most profitable industries.
The author says that the
solutions he suggests for these cultural failures get down to the
“nitty-gritty,” which is true but many readers are likely to be offended and
shocked by them. However, most readers will secretly agree with his
suggestions—which he notes are in fact slowly but surely becoming reality
because many of them make sense.
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BOOKS ON ARIZONA:
AMAZING
ARIZONA –
Fascinating
Facts, Legends & Tall Tales!
Quality
Trade Paperback
Arizona is unique among American states,
not only in its geography and geology but also in the diversity of its climate,
in its indigenous animal and plant life, and in the history of its first
inhabitants: communities of Indians whose ancestors arrived on the scene some
15,000 to 20,000 years ago. The stories of the Americans who
began arriving on the scene in the 1820s range from amazing to incredible.
This is great reading for residents and visitors alike.
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THE
GRAND CANYON ANSWER BOOK –
Everything
You Might Want to Know About the Grand Canyon and Then Some!
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Trade Paperback
Arizona is one of the most
spectacular and beautiful regions in the U.S. There is no other place with its
mix of landscapes, animal and plant life, and unique geological structures. The
Indians of Arizona [28 percent of the
state is Indian Country!], are also among the state's living treasures. The most spectacular of Arizona's geological
features is, of course, the great Grand Canyon, considered by many to be the
most awesome landscape sight on earth. Its only competition is on Mars! As the
title indicates, this book answers virtually every question anyone might have
about the Grand Canyon—literally from “A” to “Z”—including many things regular
guide books don’t talk about…all in one handy handbook.
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VISITOR’S
GUIDE TO ARIZONA’S INDIAN RESERVATIONS
Quality
Trade Paperback
Arizona was Indian Country thousands of
years before the first Europeans set foot on the North and South American
continents and it is still Indian Country today! Seventeen tribes live on 23 Reservations that
encompass a total of over 20 million acres—approximately 28 percent of the land
Area of the state! Many of Arizona’s most amazing attractions—cultural,
geographic, historical and recreational—are in its Indian Country. This book
covers the visitor attractions and recreational facilities on all of the
Reservations as well as why and how the Reservations came to be created and how
they ultimately saved Arizona’s Indians from virtual extinction. The
Reservations now play a vital role in the business and cultural life of the
state and are among its most valuable assets. A valuable handbook for anyone
interested in the extraordinary culture of the Apaches, Hopi, Navajos and other
Native American residents of Arizona.
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CULTURAL CODE WORDS OF THE HOPI PEOPLE –
The
History, Heart, Traditional Customs & Wisdom of the Hopis
Quality
Trade Paperback
Provocative explanations of key Hopi words
that define the values, attitudes and behavior of these famous, enigmatic Native
Americans of Arizona, from their sexual mores to their view of and relationship
with the physical and spiritual worlds. The ability of the early Hopi to
predict future events is astounding—clearer and more precise than the
prophecies of Nostradamus. “Fascinating insights into the minds of a people
who say they were the first human beings in the Americas, and that they came by
huge rafts across the Pacific Ocean; not the ancient land-bridge that connected
Alaska and the Asian continent!”
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CULTURAL CODE WORDS OF THE NAVAJO PEOPLE
–
The
History, Heart, Traditional Customs & Wisdom of the Navajos
Quality
Trade Paperback
Provocative explanations of key Navajo
words that define the values, attitudes and behavior of these famed Native Americans
of Arizona and New Mexico (known during their heyday as “The Lords of the
Earth!”) Content ranges from male-female customs to their view of and
relationship with the physical and spiritual world. Unlike the early Anglo-American
image of these remarkable people, they were intellectually sophisticated,
master poets and warrior-philosophers who, when they had the chance, put most of
the white men of the day to shame.
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BOOKS ON CHINA:
BRIDGING CULTURAL BARRIERS
In China, Japan, Korea & Mexico –
Quality
Trade Paperback
The economies of the advanced countries
have gone global, but not the cultures! This presents a plethora of
problems that include economic as well as political affairs, especially with
countries whose
cultures are often so different that compromises—much less
agreements--range from difficult to impossible. In this book, author Boyé
Lafayette De Mente, known for his pioneer books on the business and social
cultures of China, Japan, Korea and Mexico, presents a series of
business-oriented insights
that take much of the mystery out of the
mindset and behavior of the Chinese, Japanese, Koreans and Mexicans. It is
excellent background reading for business people, diplomats, political leaders,
academics and students.
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THE CHINESE MIND—
Understanding Traditional Chinese
Beliefs
and
their Influence on Contemporary Culture
Quality Trade Paperback
This is not an esoteric
academic exercise! It is a down-to-earth guide to how present-day Chinese think
and why they think and behave the way they do! It provides insights on the
Chinese mindset as well as guidelines for interacting with the Chinese in
business, diplomatic, political and social situations!
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ETIQUETTE
GUIDE TO CHINA –
Know
the Rules That Make the Difference!
Quality
Trade Paperback
An invaluable guide for businesspeople and
visitors going to China, from how to meet, greet and interact with people, to
rules governing the way the Chinese do business – plus useful phrases in
Romanized Chinese with English phonetics…just read the phonetics in standard English and the sound comes out in “Chinese!”
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CHINA’S CULTURAL CODE WORDS –
Key Words that Explain How and Why
the Chinese Think, Communicate and Behave
the Way They Do
Hardcover
and quality trade paperback editions*
Concise explanations of over 300 key
Chinese terms that serve as windows to the heart and soul of China—an in depth guide
to how the Chinese think and behave, with practical advice on how to cope. “Windows to the heart and soul of the Chinese!”
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details, click on Amazon.com.
*For the soft
cover edition [The Chinese Have a Word for It!] go to Amazon.com:
CHINESE ETIQUETTE & ETHICS IN
BUSINESS
Quality
Trade Paperback
A penetrating analysis
of the morals and values that shape the Chinese business personality, from
cultural pitfalls to political shenanigans. “Vital insights and
advice for businesspeople [and diplomats!] dealing
with China!”
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details, click on Amazon.com.
CHINESE IN PLAIN ENGLISH
Quality Trade Paperback
Over 1,000 key terms and phrases in phoneticized Chinese for instant use. Just pronounce the
phonetics in English and the sound comes out in Chinese (or close enough!!!!). Ideal for vacationing
travelers and short-time business visitors.
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INSTANT CHINESE
Quality Pocket-Sized Paperback
This handy pocket-sized
language manual covers words and phrases commonly heard and used in everyday
casual, social and business situations in China…with a pronunciation guide
based on the English language phonetics [sounds!] that most closely resembles
the correct Chinese pronunciation. You read or say the English phonetics and
the sounds come out “in Chinese.”
For online
ordering details, click on: Amazon.com.
SURVIVAL CHINESE
Quality Pocket-Sized Paperback
This handy pocket-sized book
covers words and phrases visitors need to communicate about basic things from
greetings and emergencies to questions about everything from hotels and dining
to transportation. It is also based on English language
phonetics that allows one to communicate fairly well in Chinese without any
previous study, or knowledge of the “tones.”
You just pronounce the phonetic versions of each entry in English.
For online
ordering details, click on: Amazon.com.
ASIAN FACE READING –
Unlock
the Secrets Hidden in the Human Face.
Quality
Trade Paperback
A handbook on how to “read” the size,
shape and quality of facial features to discern intimate facts about the character,
personality and sexuality of the individual…a skill that can be invaluable in
selecting friends, mates and employees! Everybody face reads! Being able to do
it like a professional pays off! The book is illustrated with key facial
features. “Just being able to ‘read’ the mouth and lips provides remarkable
insights!” [The book is based on
face-reading principles pioneered by Chinese physicians beginning some three
thousand years ago.]
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BOOKS ON JAPAN:
AMAZING JAPAN –
Why Japan is one of the World’s Most
Intriguing Countries!
Quality
Trade Paperback
Japan is known worldwide for its economic
prowess and such iconic symbols as geisha, karaoke, manga,
Mt. Fuji, ninja, feudal-age samurai warriors and huge sumo wrestlers. What is not so well-known are its amazing
historical artifacts [shrines; temples; castles; the world’s largest and oldest
wooden buildings; arts and crafts, hundreds of annual festivals that go back
nearly two thousand years]; the incredible scenic beauty of its mountains,
gorges, rivers, one of the longest and most gorgeous coastlines in the world;
and a combined modern and traditional lifestyle that is so fascinating and
seductive that exposure to it for just a few days is a mind-altering
experience. The author identifies and describes a choice selection of things
that make Japan one of the world’s most unusual, most intriguing, and most
enjoyable travel destinations…things that explain why so many foreigners take
up permanent residence there once they have experienced life in this amazing
country.
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EXOTIC JAPAN –
The Sensual & Visual Pleasures
Quality Trade Paperback
Journalist-author Boyé Lafayette De Mente delves into his 60 years
of experience of living in, working in, traveling in and writing 30-plus
pioneer books on the Japanese way in all areas of life to present a smorgasbord
of the many things that make Japan one of the most unusual, attractive and
seductive countries in the world—with invaluable insights into how to enjoy the
sensual and visual feast! Whatever your
interest may be, Exotic Japan will
inform, delight, and titillate you. It includes survival-type key words and
phrases in Japanese with their equivalents in English phonetics so you can
pronounce them perfectly without any previous study or practice.
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KATA:
The Key to Understanding and Dealing
with the Japanese!
(The Cultural Programming that Made the
Japanese a Superior People).
Quality Trade Paperback.
In this break-through book, Japanologist
Boyé Lafayette De Mente reveals the existence of precise cultural molds that
were responsible for creating and controlling the traditional mindset of the
Japanese…a new and unique way of understanding the attitudes, values, character
and personality of the Japanese, which goes well beyond Ruth Benedict’s famous
World War II study published as “The Chrysanthemum & the Sword.”
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WHY THE JAPANESE ARE A SUPERIOR PEOPLE!
The Advantages of Using Both Sides of
Your Brain!
Quality Trade Paperback.
Japanologist/author
Boyé Lafayette De Mente identifies and dissects the cultural factors that gave
the Japanese a long list of skills that have made them a formidable people.
These skills including thinking holistically, mastering forms and processes,
producing quality goods, building sensual appeal into products, and emphasizing
emotional intelligence. The book also explains in
detail why and how Westerners and other left-brain oriented people should
develop the ability to use the right sides of their brains to make them more
competitive in today’s world.
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JAPAN’S CULTURAL CODE WORDS –
Key Words that Explain How and Why
the Japanese Think and Behave the Way They
Do!
Quality
Trade Paperback
Insightful explanations of over 200 key
words that define and control the attitudes and behavior of Japanese in
business and social situations. The author uses the key words as windows to the
heart and soul of the Japanese, explaining not only how the Japanese think and
behave, but why they think and behave the way they do. “More
insights, more practicaladvice, than in a dozen other
books on Japan!”
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details, click on Amazon.com.
JAPANESE ETIQUETTE & ETHICS IN
BUSINESS
Quality
Trade Paperback
The 7th edition of the first book ever on
the mentality and behavior of Japanese businessmen (first published in 1959), their
morals, values, goals and strategies. “The mother of all
business bookson Japan and still valid!”
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details, click on Amazon.com.
BUSINESS GUIDE TO JAPAN—A Quick Guide to
Opening Doors & Closing Deals!
[Keys to Doing Business with the
Japanese]
Quality Trade Paperback
This is a series
of nitty-gritty guidelines for approaching and dealing with Japanese
businesspeople that begins with the “taste and smell” of Japanese companies and
goes on to such esoteric things [in their Japanese context!] as “I understand
you” and “I will do my best”—which mean something altogether different.
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ELEMENTS OF
JAPANESE DESIGN—
Guidelines for Understanding & Using
Japan’s Classic Sabi, Wabi,
and Shibui Design Concepts
Quality Trade Paperback
The philosophy
and ethics of Japanese design concepts are revealed in key words that are laden
with cultural meaning. Although relatively simple in their original meanings,
these terms have been expanded to incorporate the basic principles and elements
of beauty and design that evolved in the unique Japanese environment. It is
this culture-based philosophy and tradition of Japanese design and beauty that
is leading a growing number of Westerners to change their way of living to a
style
that is more in keeping with human nature, and is
therefore more satisfying sensually, emotionally, intellectually and
spiritually. Elements of Japanese Design
provides
in-depth understanding of these principles and how to
use them.
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JAPAN UNMASKED—
The Character and Culture of the
Japanese
Quality
Trade Paperback
Veteran author
Boyé Lafayette De Mente uses his in-depth knowledge of the Japanese language
and culture based on decades of first-hand experience to reveal the innermost
values, attitudes and day-to-day practices of the Japanese in all of the areas
of life…from their business practices to their purely social relationships…in
layman’s terms; not the jargon of academics.
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ETIQUETTE GUIDE TO JAPAN: Know the Rules
that Make the Difference!
Quality
Trade Paperback
In this classic
manual, the author provides cultural insights into Japanese behavior, with
precise guidelines for businesspeople and travelers…including when it is
permissible to break the rules!For online ordering details, click on: Amazon.com.
THE JAPANESE SAMURAI CODE – Classic Strategies for Success.
Quality Trade Paperback.
Japanologist Boyé Lafayette De Mente
claims that the Japanese were able to recover from the destruction of World War
II in less than 15 years, from 1946 to 1960, and then transform their tiny
resource-poor nation into the world’s second largest economy in the next 15
years as a result of the code of ethics they inherited from the samurai
warriors who ruled the country from 1192 until the last decades of the 19th
century. In this fascinating book, De Mente identifies the elements of the
samurai code that created the Japanese mindset and made them success-oriented
to an incredible degree—values and attitudes that continue to influence the
behavior of the Japanese today. The book contains valuable lessons for
achieving success in any endeavor.
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SAMURAI STRATEGIES—
42 Strategies for Success (Based on
Musashi Miyamoto’s
Classic Book of Five Rings)
Quality Trade Paperback
The Samurai Way of Winning in Business and in War! Japanologist
Boyé Lafayette De Mente attributes the astounding transformation of tiny,
resource poor Japan into the world’s second largest economy in less than 30
years to the ongoing influence of the samurai code of ethics—a code that made
them fierce fighters in one-on-one combat as well as formidable strategists in
both business and war. The most famous individual combat strategist in Japanese
history was Musashi Miyamoto, a warrior
who lived from 1584 to 1645. Miyamoto fought his first
duel to the death when he was 13 years old, killing a veteran warrior more than
twice his age. By the time he was 29 he had defeated more than 60 other
warriors in death duels, and become a legend in his own time. Just before he
died, Miyamoto recorded his philosophy, strategies and tactics in a short
treatise entitled Go Rin
Sho, or “The Book of Five Rings.” De Mente has extracted the fundamentals of
Miyamoto’s strategies and tactics from this esoteric little book and explained
them in modern terms of business and war. Miyamoto’s way of winning is just as
valid today as it was in the 16th and 17th centuries,
and provides invaluable insights for anyone in any field
of endeavor—from business, war and sports to the arts and crafts. Samurai
Strategies is more precise and more practical as a handbook for winning
than The Art of War by China’s most
famous military strategist Sun Tzu.
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ordering details, click on: Amazon.com:
JAPANESE BUSINESS DICTIONARY
Quality
Trade Paperback
This book
includes over 4,000 contemporary business terms and a guide to business phrases
and etiquette. All entries appear in English, in Kanji [ideographs], in
Romanized Japanese and in English phonetics so anyone can pronounce the words
and sentences “in Japanese.”For
online ordering details, click on: Amazon.com.
JAPANESE IN PLAIN ENGLISH
Quality
Trade Paperback
Over 1,200 high-frequency
words and expressions in English, Japanese and phonetics for instant use. Just pronounce the phonetics in English
and the sound comes out Japanese! “It takes the mystery out of the Japanese
language!”
For online ordering details, click on: Amazon.com.
SPEAK JAPANESE TODAY!—A Little Language
Goes a Long Way!
Quality
Trade Paperback
Speak
Japanese Today is
designed for anyone who comes into contact with Japanese and wants to
communicate with them in their own language.
The first portion of the book provides an
introduction to the pronunciation of Japanese and an easy overview of the
structure of the language. It also includes basic greetings, farewells, telling
time, everyday expressions about the weather, giving directions, telling
distances, counting, money, telephoning and much more.
Speak
Japanese Today is unique
in that it also provides vocabulary and sentences for airline pilots,
stewardesses, Immigration officials, Customs officials, hotel staff, restaurant
staff, bartenders, shop clerks, taxi drivers, tour guides, doctors, people
hosting Japanese students, and more. With a little practice, a person can
communicate as many as 500 key concepts using only a 100-word vocabulary. Speak Japanese Today contains over 700
key words—which is close to the total number
of words most people use in their own
language in the course of a day. All of the words and expressions in the book
are given in Romanized Japanese along with
an easy-to-master pronunciation phonetic
system that uses standard English. Just pronounce the phonetics as if they were
English, and the sounds come out "in Japanese!"
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INSTANT JAPANESE
Quality Pocket-Sized Paperback
Every word and sentence in
this pocket-sized language guide includes English language phonetics that make it possible for the user to communicate basic words and
expressions in virtually perfect Japanese without any previous study or
experience. It covers common daily experiences.
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ordering details, click on: Amazon.com.
SURVIVAL JAPANESE
Quality Pocket-Sized Paperback
Every word and sentence in
this pocket-sized language guide includes English language phonetics that make it possible for the user to communicate in virtually
perfect Japanese without any previous study or experience. It covers basic
situations involving arriving in and getting around in Japan, including dealing
with emergencies.
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ordering details, click on: Amazon.com.
SEX
& THE JAPANESE—The Sensual Side of Japan
Quality Trade Paperback
In Japan sex, in all of its
categories, has never been regarded as a sin. The sexual attitudes and customs
of present-day Japanese continue to reflect this ancient wisdom in ways that
are both practical and imaginative. Sex and the Japanese reveals the ins and
outs of these attitudes and customs, from the institutions of “love hotels” and
erotic massage parlors, weekend trysts at hot spring spas, the use of cell phones
and the Internet, to well-publicized date clubs and escort services. The
insights and guidelines provided by Sex
and the Japanese fill an enormous gap left by all other books on Japan, and
is ideal background reading for businesspeople, tourists, students
and anyone else interested in Japanese culture, from
anime to manga.
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JAPAN
MADE EASY—
Everything
You Need to Know to Enjoy Japan
(and Get the Most Out of your Yen!)
Quality Trade Paperback
This book is
not a guide to Japan’s tourist attractions. It is a guide to all of the
other things the traveler should know (and in many cases must know!) in order
to get the most out of a trip to Japan—from matters relating to money, airports,
transportation, the ins-and-outs of hotels and inns, how to avoid sky-high
prices, how to avoid being ripped off in hostess bars, doing and seeing things
that are more meaning than shrines and temples, and much more!
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MISTRESS-KEEPING
IN JAPAN –
The
Pitfalls & the Pleasures Then & Now
Quality
Trade Paperback
Mistress-keeping has had a long and “illustrious”
history in Japan, with fascinating traditions and customs that were unique to
Japanese culture. The practice underwent
dramatic changes following the end of the Shogunate era in 1867 and again
following the end of World War II in 1945—when it was revitalized by thousands
of American and United Nations military and civilian personnel who were part of
the Occupation of Japan. Author Boyé
Lafayette De Mente, who was part of that extraordinary phenomenon, describes
in detail the nature and role of mistress-keeping
during the Shogunate era, in the aftermath of WWII, and how it continues today
as part of Japan’s mizu shobai [mee-zoo show-by] or “water business,” providing valuable insights into the entertainment
trades that play major roles in business and politics.
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SABURO
–
The
Saga of a Teenage Samurai in 17th Century Japan
Quality
Trade Paperback
Male members of Japan’s famous samurai
class, which took power in Japan at the end of the 12th century, were required
to undergo physical, mental and spiritual training that gave them incredible
skills in a number of martial arts. By
the 1600s, samurai were also expected to become versed in aesthetics, calligraphy,
philosophical matters and writing poetry. The
saga of Saburo are true-to-life stories of a young
boy who opts to become a roving shugyo-sha (shuu-g’yoh-shah), or “samurai in training,”
rather than serve a feudal lord, leading him to
extraordinary adventures that bring out the culture of his times. Each story is
filled with cultural and historical facts that reveal both negative and
positive elements in the lives of the samurai class, with Saburo surmounting
those that are negative and eventually finding a master who explains the
essence and the purpose of life. The stories are both an educational and an
inspirational read for young people.
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SUBWAY
GUIDE TO TOKYO
Over
500 Key Destinations by Bus, Subway & Train
Quality
Trade Paperback
Tokyo alone has 13 intersecting subway
lines with over 100 stations, some of which has up to 20 exits—and if you take
the wrong exit you can be as much as half a mile from your destination! This
book is based on over 500 popular destinations, the line to take, the station
to get off at and the exit to use—plus information about buying and using
tickets and passes.
For online ordering details, click on: Amazon.com.
[Check on Amazon to see if an expanded
edition of this book, entitled Transit
Guide to Tokyo & Yokohama,
is available.]
BOOKS ON KOREA:
ETIQUETTE
GUIDE TO KOREA – Know the Rules That Make the Difference!
Quality
Trade Paperback
Despite its historical kinship with China
and Japan, Korea has its own unique culture that distinguishes Koreans and makes
them one of the most remarkable people on the planet. This insightful book
provides precise guidelines for interacting with Koreans socially and
professionally, allowing you to get the most out of your visit. It includes
useful Korean expressions [with English-language pronunciation phonetics] that
help smooth your way.
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KOREA’S BUSINESS & CULTURAL CODE
WORDS –
Key Words that Explain How and Why
Koreans Think, Communicate
and Behave the Way They Do
Hardcover
Concise essays on 230 of the most
important words in the Korean language; words that explain the values, morals and
manners of Koreans in all of their business and personal relationships… Keys to the heart and soul of the Koreans. “Packs more
insights into the Korean mindset than a dozen other books combined!”
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KOREAN BUSINESS ETIQUETTE
Quality Trade Paperback
A penetrating review of the morals and
values that shape the Korean business personality—“cultural
keys” that turn Koreans on and off, and how to cope with them.
“If you read only one book on Korea, this
should be the one!”
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KOREAN IN PLAIN ENGLISH
Quality
Trade Paperback
Over 1,200 high frequency words and
phrases phoneticized for instant use… Just pronounce
the phonetics in English and the sound comes out in Korean! “Ideal
for tourists and visiting business people.”
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INSTANT KOREAN
Quality
Pocket-Sized Paperback
This little pocket guide
allows you to express 1,000 different ideas with just 100 key words and
phrases…all of which are rendered in English language phonetics as well as
Romanized Korean, making it possible for you to communicate “in Korean.” It
covers common daily situations. Ideal for tourists and
businesspeople.
For online
ordering details, click on: Amazon.com.
SURVIVAL KOREAN
Quality
Pocket-Sized Paperback
This pocket-guide covers
greetings, introductions, traveling, hotel matters, the time, weather, using
Money, in restaurants, paying bills, shopping, etc. All of the words and
phrases are rendered in English language phonetics as well as Romanized Korean,
making it possible for you to communicate “in Korean.” Ideal
for tourists and businesspeople.
For online
ordering details, click on: Amazon.com.
BOOKS ON MEXICO:
WHY MEXICANS THINK AND BEHAVE THE WAY
THEY DO!—
The Cultural
Factors that Created the Character & Personality of the Mexican People.
Quality
Trade Paperback
A description and explanation of the
manners, morality, values, behavior and idiosyncrasies of Mexicans…from the prevalence
of bribery and corruption in general to the machoism,
sexism, nationalism and hedonism that prevails in the culture, with practical
advice on how to bridge the cultural gaps—insights that are especially valuable today because of the importance
of Mexico as a business partner, and the growing number of Mexicans in the U.S.
“The first book on Mexico to tell it like it really is…!”
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MEXICAN CULTURAL CODE WORDS –
Key Words that Explain How and Why
Mexicans Think, Communicate and Behave the Way They
Do
Hardcover and Quality Trade Paperback Editions
As in all old
societies, there are several hundred words in the Mexican language that are
pregnant with cultural nuances that reveal the values, attitudes and behavior
of the people in astounding depth and detail. The book provides extraordinary insights
into Mexican behavior on the highest and lowest levels, and is a valuable tool
for businesspeople, educators and students. It is also available as a trade
paperback under the title of There’s a Word for It in Mexico. [See the
next listing]
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THERE’S A WORD FOR IT IN MEXICO!
This is the
quality trade paperback edition of Mexican Cultural Code Words.
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ROMANTIC MEXICO—The
Images & the Realities
The Charm, the Eroticism, the Magic
& the Violence!
Quality
Trade Paperback
This insightful guide provides an in-depth
look at the history of male-female relations in Mexico; at how Indian, Moorish
and Spanish influences molded the character of present-day Mexicans, and how
these influences continue to play a role in sexual morality, courting and
marriage in Mexico. It covers the origins of the machismo cult, the smoldering
passions of men and women, the extraordinary romantic nature of Mexicans, the
violent element in love, sex and marriage, visitors looking for romance in Mexico…and
more! There are also some choice aphrodisiac recipes, including one that is
known as “Raise the Dead!”
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OTHER BOOKS BY THE AUTHOR:
WHICH SIDE OF YOUR BRAIN AM I TALKING
TO?—
The Advantages of Using Both Sides of
Your Brain /
And Why Women Must Use the Less-Dominant
Side of Their Brains
in Order to Survive!
Quality
Trade Paperback
The human brain has a left
side and a right side, and it is well-known that the two sides are programmed
to perform different functions. There is also growing evidence that sexual
gender, the language one first learns as a child, and the culture in which one
is raised, play primary roles in determining which side of the brain is engaged
at particular times. To further complicate matters, some people are left-brain
oriented while others are right-brain oriented. These differences play key
roles in the values,
attitudes and behavior of every individual. In this insightful
and provocative book, Boyé Lafayette De Mente, known for his books on the
influence of language on the cultures of China, Japan, Korea and Mexico, proposes
that it is a unique left-brain right-brain factor that explains why the
Japanese make such high-quality products—but have difficulty communicating with
other people. He also argues that Americans and others must learn how and when
to use the right sides of their brains more effectively if they are to achieve
their full potential.
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ordering details, click on: Amazon.com.
SAMURAI PRINCIPLES & PRACTICES THAT
WILL HELP
PRETEENS & TEENS IN SCHOOL, SPORTS,
SOCIAL
ACTIVITIES & CHOOSING CAREERS
Quality
Trade Paperback
The principles and practices
that Japan’s famous samurai class used in training their young made the samurai
one of the most extraordinary groups of people the world has ever seen. The
skills they developed in the martial arts and in cultural pursuits have never
been surpassed by any other people. Japanologist / author Boyé Lafayette De
Mente has identified these principles and practices and turned them into a handbook
for present-day parents, teachers, preteens and teens…to help the young become
modern-day samurai in their pursuit of success! The book should
be especially attractive to the millions of young Americans and others who have
been weaned on Japanese manga
(comics), ninja exploits and video games.
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ordering details, click on: Amazon.com.
ROMANTIC HAWAII—Sun, Sand, Surf &
Sex! Hawaii Then & Now!
Quality
Trade Paperback
When the first white men
showed up in Hawaii in 1778 it was the middle of a long fall and winter
festival during which various sexual techniques were demonstrated by nude hula
dancers, couples engaged in a “bowling for partners” game, and people played
various other competitive sports. The foreign explorers assumed that the
Hawaiians never worked and that sex was a universal sport—so to speak. American
missionaries soon put a stop to this enlightened custom, and tried their best
to completely and permanently ban hula dancing and surfing (in the nude, of
course). But as time passed and the first generation of missionaries went to
their reward, surfing, hula dancing and the pursuit of sexual pleasures
regained some of the ground they had lost. Today’s Hawaii is not as laid back
as it was in its pre-missionary days, but the sun, the sand, the surf and the
islands still work their seductive magic on residents and visitors alike. For
vacationers, going to Hawaii is like a honeymoon whether they are newlyweds or
not. Ideal background reading for putting you in the mood.
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ONCE A FOOL—From Japan to Alaska by
Amphibious Jeep
(One of the Most Unusual Adventure
Stories of the 20th Century)
Quality
Trade Paperback
This is the story of the
author’s experiences aboard the globe-circling amphibious jeep dubbed
HALF-SAFE! by Ben Carlin, its Australian “captain,”
who turned out to be a modern-day Captain Bligh! During the 4-month-long journey from Tokyo to
Anchorage, Alaska, the two adventurers encountered Russians, Japanese fish nets, sea lions, technical
problems, the frigid waters of the North Pacific and Bering Sea—and each other!
The crossing made news worldwide, and The
Guinness Book of World Records. For online
ordering details, click on: Amazon.com.
HOW TO MEASURE THE SEXUALITY OF MEN
& WOMEN
BY THEIR FACIAL FEATURES
Quality Trade Paperback
Most men and women chose
partners and spouses in a hit-and-miss method inspired more by raging hormones
than by any other criteria. This handy
guide explains precisely how you can tell the difference in hot, cool and cold
men and women when it comes to their built-in sex-drive—by knowing how to read
their facial features! It is also a useful tool for employers hiring staff who
will have face-to-face contact with the public.
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WHY
IGNORANCE, STUPIDITY AND VIOLENCE PLAGUE MANKIND –
The
Failure of Rational Thinking and Common Sense
Quality
Trade Paperback
This book takes
a hard look at the irrationalities, stupidities and social insanity of human
beings—from the misunderstanding and abuse of human sexuality, the rapid
reversal of male-female roles, the commercial exploitation of female sexuality,
the malicious use of god-based
religions, to the idiotic obsession with
continuous economic and population
growth. Chapters include: The Id Monster, Human Sexuality, Races, Colors,
Cultures, Languages, Religions, Power, Profit, Growth, Why Men and Women Talk
Past Each Other…and Why the Male Prostate Gland Gets Big!
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EROS’
REVENGE –
Brave
New World of American Sex
Quality
Trade Paperback
A timely novel that reveals the Western
world’s hypocritical attitude toward human sexuality, how a nation-wide convenience-market-like
chain of sex clinics becomes the biggest enterprise in the U.S. and catapults
the first woman into the White House. A view of the future that is rapidly
coming true! Includes copious insights into the
misunderstanding, misuse and abuse of human sexuality and remedies for them.
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WHY
ORIENTAL GIRLS ATTRACT WESTERN MEN! –
The
Erotic Side of the Orient!
Quality
Trade Paperback
The exotic side of the Orient has always
fascinated both Western men and women who were fortunate enough to visit there.
But it has been the erotic side of
Oriental life that has resulted in large numbers of Western men, beginning with
Marco Polo, spending years or the rest of their lives in the Far East. In this
provocative peek behind the bamboo and silken curtains of China, Japan, Korea,
Hong Kong, Taiwan, Thailand, Vietnam and the Philippines, the author [an old
Asian Hand] details the physical and cultural elements that have traditionally
made Oriental girls the epitome of femininity and unbridled sexuality—and given
them advantages over typical Western women when it comes to attracting and
pleasing men. It also includes some valuable advice to Western women on how to
overcome their disadvantages.
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EBOOKS BY THE AUTHOR
SEXUAL PROFILES OF FAMOUS MEN &
WOMEN
Digital
Edition
Author and face-reader Boyé
Lafayette De Mente profiles the facial features of nearly 300 famous Americans,
detailing their S.Q. (Sexual Quotient) as well as the relationship between
their facial features and their success in life—insights that are useful for
everyone!
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HAI-IRO
NO SEKAI (The Grey World)
Digital
Edition
A collection of short stories that reveal
the underbelly of post-World War II Japan, when life for many was like the color
and taste of ashes—providing deep insights into the traditional mindset of the
Japanese that are still valuable today.
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DOG
DAYS IN JAPAN!—
The Amorous Adventures of a Foreign Student in Tokyo during his
Bachelor Days.
Digital
Edition
In revealing his extra-curricular
activities during his student days in Japan the author also reveals provocative
details of the Japanese mindset—how they think and behave in matters relating
to male-female relations.
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APHRODISIAC RECIPES FOR (AMBITIOUS!)
LOVERS!
Available in digital format.
Aphrodisiac foods have been sought after
and used since ancient times, and there is scientific evidence that some of
them work! This collection of recipes
from around the world ranges from the very exotic and esoteric—you throw one of
them at your intended!—to everyday foods eaten by the French, Italians,
Mexicans, Spanish—and demure ladies in Iowa!
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POETRY FOR THE SOUL! – Enhancing the
Quality of Your Life!
(with co-author Shichiro Ohshima).
Quality
Trade Paperback
Good poetry has an almost magical affect
on the emotions, the intellect and the spirit. It soothes the spirit when it is
troubled; it calms the emotions when they are on edge; it inspires the
intellect to strive for bigger and better things. If it has been a long time
since you read selections from the great Persian poet Omar Khayyam, the love
poems of Lord Byron, the evocative paeans of Emily Dickinson, the rollicking
rhymes of Robert Service or if you have never read any of them, or the poems of
Basho, Issa, Shakespeare, Frost, Whitman, Longfellow,
Browning and scores of other masters you will find them in Poetry for the
Soul…over 300 especially selected classic Western, haiku, and tanka poems,
the latter in Japanese and English.
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“AMAZON SHORTS”
By Boyé Lafayette De Mente
[Click on the titles to go
directly to Amazon.com]
Ten
of the Most Important Words in China
Ten
of the Most Important Words in Japan
Ten
of the Most Important Words in Korea
Ten
of the Most Important Words in Mexico
AMAZING
JAPAN: Fascinating Aspects of its Culture & Daily Life
AMAZING
JAPAN: Its Exotic & Sensual Appeal
AMAZING
JAPAN: Living it Up & Down the Japanese Way!
AMAZING
JAPAN: The Scenic Wonderland
AMAZING
JAPAN: Things that Make Japan Japanese!
AMAZING
JAPAN: Visitor Information & Services
To see reviews of De Mente’s books and a
series of cultural insight articles,
visit the following blog websites:
http://www.boyelafayettedemente.blogspot.com/
[Articles and Essays]
www.boyedemente.blogspot.com
[Book Reviews]
www.boyelafayettedemente.wordpress.com
[Cultural Insights on China, Japan, Korea & Mexico]
To go directly to the Amazon order pages for all of De
Mente’s print books
and
“Amazon Shorts,” click on Amazon.com